May 14, 1995 - Episode 290 - Women of Achievement and Herstory "(Women's) rights are as completely ignored in which is adjudged to be woman's sphere as out of it; the woman is uniformly sacrificed to the wife and mother. Neither law, gospel, public sentiment, nor domestic affection shield her (women) from excessive and enforced maternity, depleting alike to mother and child; -- all opportunity for mental improvement, health, happiness -- yea, life itself, being ruthlessly sacrificed. "The wizen, withered, narrow-minded wife - mother of half a dozen children -- her interests all centering at her fireside, forms a painful contrast in many household to the liberal, genial, brilliant, cultured husband in the zenith of his power, who has never given one thought to the higher life, liberty, and happiness of the woman by his side; believing her self-abnegation to be Nature's law." -- From the _History of Woman Suffrage_. The first three volumes prepared for 1881 publication were researched, recorded, and written by Elizabeth Cady Stanton, Susan B. Anthony, and Matilda Joslyn Gage. It took them ten years to prepare. In 1900 the average age of women at death was 48, mainly because so many married women died in their early 30's from unlimited child bearing. With the advent of birth control, the average age of a married woman doubled in less than 60 years. Happy Mother's Day. 05-14 Anniversaries ............................................... B. 05-14-1851, Anna Caroline Maxwell, RN, established numerous nurse training schools, worked with Red Cross who used many of her innovations, campaigned to get military rank for nurses of the Army Nurse Corps. Authored _Practical Nursing_. B. 05-14-1887, Henrietta Silvis Additon, a pioneering superintendent of women's reformatories, superintendent Westfield State Farm, New York's only woman's prison (1940.) B. 05-14-1904, Katherine McBride, psychologist educated in at Bryn Mawr, B.A. 1925; M.A. 1927; Ph.D. 1932; appointed Dean of Radcliffe College (1940) and fourth President of Bryn Mawr (1942- 1970). B. 05-14-1902, (Helen) Flanders Dunbar, psychiatrist, only 4'11", she earned four advanced degrees in seven years including a Ph.D. in philosophy, a B.D, and a medical degrees in 1930, integrated religion science, medicine and psychiatry and headed the Council for the Clinical Training of Theological Students. Her chief legacy is psychosomatic approach to illnesses - a study that showed distinctive personality profiles for each disease and also uncovered the emotional disturbance of accident-prone people. Her _Mind and Body _ (1947) presented her findings. B. 05-14-1925, Patrice Munsel, operatic singer. Known as the baby because she was only 18 when she debuted at the Metropolitan. Event 05-14-1969: Canada legalizes abortion and homosexuality. Event 05-14-1973, the U.S. Supreme Court rules the husbands of military woman had the same rights as the wives of military men. Military policy had denied benefits to husbands. Ruth Bader Ginsberg argued the case before the high court on behalf of husbands. Quotes du jour ............................................... "And like a bear emerging from its winter lair, the thought surfaces: my father verbally abuses my mother and always has. He puts her down. Sometimes it's blatant, often subtle. He never takes what she says seriously, barely listens. My insides feel webbed with live wires. At first I think it's anger at him, or empathy for her, but this doesn't last long. I can't evade the truth another moment. "As a teen, I colluded with him. I joined in the ridicule of my mother -- all in fun, of course -- and she accepted it as her due. Shame suffuses me as I acknowledge my culpability." -- Sandra Scoppettone in _Everything You Have is Mine_, a mystery novel.