04-26-1995 - Episode 268 - Women of Achievement and Herstory "Language is real. It is powerful. It defines existence. What we allow ourselves to be called is how we allow the world to view us. "I doubt that few thinking adults would quarrel with my condemnation of addressing any female by the generic, "Hey you bi*ch!" It is harder to explain the more subtle reasons why only close family members should address a female over the age of 12 as "Honey" or "sweetheart." The reason is that keeping females 'cute' by calling them endearing names is a very effective way of keeping them powerless. "The generic grouping of females by language into either 'cute' groups or 'sex' groups denies their identity as individuals. The effect of this is damaging to males because it teaches them to view females as less than people. More disastrous is the effect on females because they learn to view themselves as beings without individual self-worth... "Females are not anybody's 'honey,' 'sweetheart,' 'bi*ch,' 'ho,' or 'slop.' First and last, a psychologically healthy female belongs only to herself. Any act that is destructive to her self-worth is destructive to her humanity." -- Matilda Buchanan, English teacher, Central High School, Little Rock, Arkansas. 04-26 Anniversaries ............................................... Event 04-26-1877, on the night of April 26, 1877, Sybil Ludington, age 16, rode through towns in New York and Connecticut warning that the Redcoats were coming, the redcoats were coming to Danbury, CN. All Paul Reverish, except she actually gathered enough volunteers to help beat back the British the next day. Her ride was twice the distance of Revere. Her hometown was renamed after her. B. 04-26-1886, Gertrude Pridgett "Ma" Rainey, one of the true greats of the Negro Minstrel show when it was a true art form. Recorded at least 92 songs as a blues singer but was eclipsed by Bessie Smith. She is gradually being recognized as an important influence in the transition from Afro-American music to jazz. B. 04-26-1908, Gale Wilhelm*, author of the lesbian classics We Too Are Drifting and Torchlight to Valhalla both published by mainline New York publishers. "She wanted to melt and pour herself around Morgen like wax." B. 04-26-1922, Jeanne Sauve, 23rd Governor-General of Canada and the first woman (1984). Involved in several reform groups and from 1942 to 1947, served as president of Young Catholic Students, a reform group and worked as a union organizer after her marriage, then began her career as a broadcast journalist, interviewer, and commentator. She was eventually invited to run for office on the Liberal party ticket and was easily elected to the House of Commons in 1972. Prime Minister Pierre Trudeau made her a Cabinet member. In 1980 she was appointed the first woman speaker of the House of Commons. After a turbulent term in that position, she was named governor-general in 1984 for a five-year term that ended in January 1990. She died Jan. 26, 1993. B. 04-26-1933, Carol Burnett, comedian, singer, actor, one of the great entertainment marvels of our era. Quotes du jour ............................................... "Like their personal lives, women's history is fragmented, interrupted; a shadow history of human beings whose existence has been shaped by the efforts and the demands of others." --Elizabeth Janeway in _Women: Their Changing Roles. (C) 1995 Irene Stuber, PO Box 6185, Hot Springs National Park, AR 71902, irenestuber@delphi.com. Distribute verbatim copies freely with copyright notice for non-profit use. Don't let anyone tell you there weren't notable and effective women throughout history. They were always there, but historians failed to note them in our histories so that each generation of women has had to reinvent themselves.